Who we are not ...

 Who we are not is as important as who we are . Why am I writing about this ? There are several reasons . We unfortunately or fortunately live in a country where you can witness first hand  most of the controvercies about the things that can not be changed . GOOD And EVIL  First let us place innate differences aside and focus on physical differences . Every one has two sides . One he shows to the world and the other he keeps it to himself . If one is to achieve such a high standard where both his sides do not differ , he attains a level of purity . but all this seems too philosophical . Let me break it up for you . I can give you an example ;  '' suppose you say you love your mother , she asks you for a glass of water , you do not want to get up , but you do and get her what she asked . '' What just happened ? Does not wanting what your mother wants for do not mean you do not love her . It shows your ' loving ' side took hold of your 'non loving ' side ....